The Wisdom of Open Relating
By
greg ehmka
The one wise in open relating trusts
that within the perfect freedom to relate anytime, anyplace and with anyone he or she will be guided from within by an equally perfect passionate and loving truth.
The one wise in open relating remembers
that relationships are timeless and that one is ALWAYS related and that relationships only exist in the eternal now and therefore no past nor future can characterize the relationship itself, only its form.
The one wise in open relating intends
that all relationships be fully founded in the truth of correct form.
The one wise in open relating knows
that any relationship is independent of all others and therefore maintains correct connections with each and every one.
The one wise in open relating remembers
that the relationship is a gift.
A true gift is freely given, NSA.
The receiver of a true gift may do whatever he or she wishes with the gift. Therefore, the true giver requires courage and the true receiver requires personal truth.
The one wise in open relating knows
of the infinity of common human problems to be faced and resolved like jealousy, neurotic insecurity, fearful rule-making, the forsaking of others, the clinging, grasping and possessing of partners, the fears of material safety … and a host of others.
The one wise in open relating knows
that these are inevitable.
The one wise in open relating intends
that the infinity of common human problems be fully understood and appreciated to have no relevance to relating, no relevance to the forms of relating and no relevance to the beginnings, middles and endings of relating forms. Rather, the one wise in open relating intends that the infinity of common human problems be fully understood and appreciated to have relevance only to an individual.
The one wise in open relating, when encountering a common human problem within his or herself knows that,
with or without support, the only lasting solution is to penetrate, within, alone, to both the source of the problem and the source of Self to release the problem’s temporary darkness forever and thus emerge victorious to an even greater wisdom of open relating.
The one wise in open relating makes
no promise, makes no agreement, makes no demand and makes no request that diminishes the sovereignty of personal truth or the sovereignty of sexual passion or the sovereignty of a path of heartfelt love for herself, himself or that of any other.
The one wise in open relating, when faced with accusations,
examines first his or her heart for errors and finding some makes corrections and finding none returns the accusation to the accuser.
The one wise in open relating gives and takes
relationship sovereignty equally.