"Unconditional Receiving" blocking structures
The identity believes that receiving things from life which are nurturing, supportive, enjoyable, pleasurable, abundant and so on is not possible unless the identity “pays for them” or “makes them happen somehow.” So the identity develops different strategies for “getting them.” They are all based on low self-value, interpretations of “what ‘mother’ can or will give,” and high amounts of uncleared pain and sorrow. These blocking structures are not a function of being either a man or a woman. They are a function of blocked energy and reality interpretations relative to “how to get” what one wants.
Motherfucker
This condition of the identity is based on the belief that life will not give the identity it wants unless it uses force.
Mothersucker
This condition of the identity is based on the belief that life will not give it what it wants unless subtle or covert manipulation is used. The motherfucker has more uncleared anger and the mother-sucker has more uncleared fear.
Mother-pleaser
This condition of the identity is based on the belief that life will not give the identity what it wants unless it takes care of life or becomes some form of caretaker or “works very hard.” The mother-pleaser has more uncleared sorrow.
See: SelfValue,
Loser,
ConditionalReceivingBlockingStructures.
